The inquest heard how the 39-year-old had previously aborted a child - without her religious husband's knowledge - in 2012 after discovering the baby could be born with an abnormality as a side effect of her bipolar medication. I've been close enough to the edge that I remember feeling nothing but fear, just being scared to hell, and debilitating sadness. When do the clocks change in 2023? The woman jumped in front of a southbound A train at Rockaway Boulevard around 10 a.m., policesaid. it has NOTHING to do with it. (For more information on this and other neighborhood stories, subscribe to Patch to receive daily newsletters and breaking news alerts.). According to police, the woman, Premalatha of Senthil Nagar in Urapakkam, had quarrelled . Also, Japan's teen suicide rate is among the highest in the world. The loco pilot managed to stop the train and both of them escaped with injuries. However, it doesn't excuse what I feel is an overwhelming atmosphere herein - that people are criticizing that woman for not thinking about the aftermath of her suicide. But she couldn't be part of that society, could she? By DS Rees said: Leighane Redmond had several debts in several forms. Her movements around the station, going from one side of the station to the other, going down to the station and back up, was an unusual pattern of behaviour. Did she intend to hurt 4 other people in her attempt to destroy herself? We should never condemn the mentally ill this way because it causes trouble to passengers etc. Newsquest Media Group Ltd, Loudwater Mill, Station Road, High Wycombe, Buckinghamshire. Awareness of the effects of one's actions on others yet choosing in one's own favor is a requisite of selfishness, and this woman, in all likelyhood, wasn't. The coroner said Ms Redmond was mainly carrying Melsadie during the time she was at the station, but was also seen walking hand in hand with her at various stages. You know, the earthquakes, the rolling blackouts, the heat, etc. There has to be a point where we can finally stop writing about the lack of awareness of and help for the mentally ill or emotionally unstable in Japan because someone with enough influence actually decided to do something about it for once. Watch the full video for more.Connect with Hindustan TimesPress the bell icon on YouTube for all the latest updates from Hindustan TimesLike us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hindustantimesTweet us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/httweetsFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hindustantimes/Find us on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/hindustantimes/Subscribe to Hindustan Times on Telegram: https://t.me/hindustantimes#Mumbai #Train #Rescue I am not trying to be rude but making statements like "taking it out on others" is ridiculous. She died at the scene. A 35-year-old man allegedly died by suicide by jumping in front of a suburban train in Maharashtra's Thane district, a police official said on Thursday. Do you know how much money her family is going to have to pay to the train company for this? This happens everyday, another happy day in Japan. As for counselling, this country's culture is built on saving face. I am absolutely amazed how many people on this message board knew the deceased person. She needed help, and should have had easy access to it -- no one debates that. Again, it's sad she did it, but you DO know that when a person kills themselves on the rails the family may have to pay the expenses for clean up and delays, etc., right? The ability to comment on our stories is a privilege, not a right, however, and that privilege may be withdrawn if it is abused or misused. . The week a train derailment poisoned an entire town in Ohio, the transportation secretary, the man in charge of preventing train derailments, held a press conference attacking White construction . Police said Wednesday that a woman jumped from a platform into the path of an express train in Tokyo's Katsushika Ward on Tuesday morning, killing herself and injuring four bystanders. A 28-year-old woman jumped in front of an approaching train at the Metro Rail Transit (MRT) Shaw Boulevard station in Mandaluyong City before noon yesterday. Shortly afterwards, the mother and daughter were seen to enter Taplow station from Approach Road, where they remained at the station for around 20 minutes. It's a cultural flaw. MoriNoHogosha; very brave of you to come here and post how you feel.Suicide is seen by many as a dirty and nasty thing. Everyone could feel and understand each other as much as they understand themselves and events like this would probably cease to exist. Several witnesses . Terrible and selfish. In this case I'd bet she didnt want anything more than what she got. This website and associated newspapers adhere to the Independent Press Standards Organisation's How is this not a fundamentally very selfish act? They don't realize how much of a mental block depression puts on a person. I feel very much sympathy for the woman but after knowing that her family will have to PAY to the train company, (possible all other damages, compensations for other victims? A police official familiar with the case said . And even in death she's seen as a big fail by some here. She was caring and a good mother. EXCLUSIVE: Lanzarote sticks to its guns and insists it WILL limit tourists and move away from relying on Nearly half of British viewers believe ethnic minorities and LGBT communities are over-represented on TV, Is YOUR wood burner at risk? Rangers trade Kravtsov, waive Leschyshyn, Giants, Jets fans among most passionate in NFL: report, PIX11 talks with Adam Korsak ahead of NFL Combine, Moose on the Loose: New York basketball is fun again. Wrong signal. Because you have compassion for those who commit suicide doesn't mean you don't also have foranyone who has had to witness and deal with it. A woman in Mumbai's Kandivali area committed suicide by jumping in front of a Mumbai local train on Wednesday afternoon. The incident occurred as the train was pulling into the Lorimer Street station around 7:42 p.m., according to. The 26-year-old woman has been identified as Sonakshi Garg. Prince Harry boasts about finding 'freedom and happiness' and jokes about reincarnation in unseen TV Behind-the-scenes at fashion week with the Spencers! Call the Samaritans on 116 123 or email them [email protected]. Had police been observing her, they would have approached her because of her behaviour., The coroner said: At this stage, Melsadie is becoming rather frustrated and upset with her. This woman has, through her actions, seriously affected many others. It's simple ease of access. Police say although there were no eyewitnesses to the incident, the events were captured by a station security camera. Data returned from the Piano 'meterActive/meterExpired' callback event. Personal Assistant for Older New Yorkers in Manhattan, Holy Uproar After Adams Decries Separation Of Church And State, 'People Will Die': FDNY Fire Chiefs Argue Demotions Endanger Public, Winter Storm Dumps Nearly 6 Inches Of Snow Over Parts Of NYC. But also unlucky. The woman, believed to be in her 20s, was seen lunging into the path of an oncoming No. "I have been late 3 times this month because someone thought to throw themselves in front of a train.". By Jamie Phillips and Charlie Moloney For Mailonline, Published: 21:07 GMT, 15 November 2022 | Updated: 10:11 GMT, 30 November 2022. I think I'd be sick to my stomach if I witnessed that. the point is that he couldn't sleep for a couple of days and said he couldn't get the sound of the train hitting the guy's head out of his mind..he still sometimes speaks about it. Very useful skills indeed! "I am going to kill myself, and I am going to make all of you late for work, dates, whatever in the process.". Expect delays on 1, 2, 3, 4 and 5 trains. If you must kill yourself, put your affairs in order first and choose a method that doesn't leave a gory mess. Stressful start to National Offer Day? 'It made me late for work' -type posts - Yes indeed. To those who have lost a loved one to suicide, me included, compassion is needed. 1) Trains are of course very common, and very frequent, and in the case of express trains very fast. How on earth her family have to pay ? Plus, in Japanese society, past and present, there is NO stigmata (sic) on suicide. I hope people here look around with a bit more empathy; remember your own humanity, and reach out. A woman along with her four-year-old daughter allegedly jumped in front of a goods train following a dispute in the family near Meva Nawada railway station of Sahaspur, police said on Saturday. An unidentified woman was injured when she jumped in front of a southbound No. 6 IRT train at the station at 68th Street and Lexington Avenue at 12:01 P.M. yesterday, transit authorities said. We know her well enough to know she ended her life in the most selfish way possible - by traumatizing many people forced to witness her death, not to mention those injured. I find it hard to believe no one witnessed it, as even the train conductor or people looking out from the front of the train would have seen the impact. No. Somehow she wasn't up to speed, couldn't get with the program. With 35.000 suicides per year, it is not the lady who had a problem, but the society which is inducing people to suicide. She would have known this if she had been thinking about it previous to the act, but did it anyway. Have it government regulated? Burakimin, come on man. The 27-year-old was seen with her daughter Melsadie Adella-Rae Parris at Taplow station in Buckinghamshire on February 18, 2019 for one hour and 12 minutes before their deaths. Japan And quite frankly, here in Japan I have no idea at all how you would go about it. That said, to declare that her act was selfless is a little much. Spend some time reading up about mental illness and especially depression.". Suicides usually choose JR over other lines as 100kph trains thunder through the stations. Still, I was always somehow conscious of the fact that there are better options. Her life ,her decision, her responsibilityshe is (or was) an adult with full responsibility and legal rights for goodness sake! Yesterday Mr Yabani said: 'She kept saying 'this country doesn't want me' and 'nobody wants me here. Make it "trendy"??! JR will be amply compensated for this, as in all other suicides. . 1. We should be sad that a woman couldn't face anymore life and think of her family who have lost a loved one. A few reasons, I would imagine, although of course I'm also at a loss as to why people feel the need to off themselves. steve: "Here is a bit of advice to those who seem to think this woman was selfish or a bad person. 'Usually when she had an episode, the signs were lack of sleep, lack of appetite and being angry but she was normal before and after the incident,' husband Jude said at the inquest into her death on Thursday. Mother-of-four killed herself by jumping in front of train at packed station moments after sending a text and handing her bag to a stranger Woman was killed yesterday at Wigan North Western . Now, I have said and will continue to berate the system here for their lack of help not only for people thinking about suicide but for mental disorders and illness in general, and the fact that there is still a lot of stigma is disgusting. Mabye we shoudl point our fingers at that rather tahn the victim. As a result, you apparently cannot show compassion for this woman and want to judge her by logical measures. Of course people who witness this are traumatised and i don't think anyone would deny this. Mr Wade said: 'The next thing she appears to do, she does when no member of the public is in her immediate vicinity. 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But seriously here, counselling is available for those that look for it. cleo - You're right. There are many selfish ways of committing suicide which involve pain or difficulty or 'meiwaku' for others (actually the English contains a nuance not in Japanese, ie of committing a crime, so perhaps 'ending your own life' might be a better way to phrase it than 'committing suicide'). If she were aware enough of her surroundings and were able to fully assess her situation, she likely wouldn't have jumped in the first place. Police say although there were no eyewitnesses to the incident, the events were captured by a station security camera. Nevertheless, that doesn't excuse the fact that Japan is in dire need of social support services, anywhere from distress centers for abused women or victims of rape to trauma counselling and psychiatric treatment. This is an archived article and the information in the article may be outdated. You apparently simply cannot empathize with someone who has stopped thinking rationally. She was, probably as a result of her morbidly depressed state of mind thinking and acting selfishly, ie without thought of others. Reply. Maybe we should ask ourselves how could we do that instead of pointing the finger? Paying tribute to his late wife, Mr Yabani added: 'Zdenka was a lovely woman, I was blessed to have her in my life. She took care.'. Antonia Paget For Mailonline On January 8 2018, the husband took his two children to school and returned home to find the paperwork for the transfer of hospitals lying on the computer keyboard, before he discovered his wife had thrown herself in the path of a high speed train, tragically killing her and his unborn daughter. Bad decision on her part. The views expressed in the contents above are those of our users and do not necessarily reflect the views of MailOnline. the person was sick of mind. I wouldn't be surprised if some of those injuries were from bone fragments or other parts that came off from the impact. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten, or redistributed. The lives that are always involved, the innocent people that have to suffer because the person wants to go out in style. At 3:17 p.m., at the Broadway and West 96th Street subway station, an unidentified woman jumped in front of a southbound 3 train in an apparent suicide, an NYPD spokesperson told WSR. 16:07 GMT 13 Nov 2020 bass4funk; terruble, you were late 3 times because someone ended their life. No one as far as I can see is accusing suicides in general or this woman in particular of being malevolent. A train fatally struck a woman after she jumped onto the tracks at Bay Parkway Station in Bensonhurst on Wednesday morning, police confirmed. The eight-months pregnant woman bought herself a ticket before running across the platform and jumping in front of a non-stop intercity train which sped through the station at 115mph - instantly killing her. She was thinking of herself alone. Bihar News: - . This woman was obviously highly coordinated, had excellent timing and gymnastics ability. Put up the fences and legalize suicide so people will go for a needle rather than a train. Of course if professionals could have reached this person first the outcome may have been different. The law is illogical and wrong, because it can make you to use "super glue" ,so to speak, to join each family member together 24/7 for just having peace of mind. Following a scan, the couple were overjoyed to find out their prayers had been answered and they were expecting a little girl. Bad decision on her part. where a woman and a child were at various subway stations yesterday . There are other less 'intrusive ' ways to get to the next life - better to help people get over it though. Not one of you seem to consider that maybe this woman had fallen into depression due to the current situation caused by TEPCO or the Earthquake / Tsunami. British Transport Police had declared the deaths a suspicious incident and an investigation was launched by their Major Crime team. We want our comments to be a lively and valuable part of our community - a place where readers can debate and engage with the most important local issues. host: ITV boss who 'forced out Piers Morgan' Police inspect burnt items as hundreds of officers and volunteers with sniffer dogs scour parkland for From nightmares to candy cravings, the seemingly innocuous habits in children that may be early warning What you need to know about new number plates on cars being sold across the country TODAY. More people rush to help the duo, and they are eventually pulled onto the platform. the fact is we have to understand that people who kill themselves are in no state to start considering others, they don't even want to live. "It's a shame that because of her actions others were hurt, and with the Japanese being as they are, I doubt as well that others were traumatized by this woman's actions as well.". As a subscriber, you are shown 80% less display advertising when reading our articles. Email: [email protected] Compassion is free. A tragedy and a waste of a life. According to investigators, her body was hit by the front car and then propelled five meters, through the glass door of a station shop that was situated on the platform. 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